veryone’s life comes with its share of good times and hardships. What makes some people stand out is how they come back stronger from setbacks, especially when their challenges are relatable.
This month’s “Women in Self-Storage” features Jennifer Downer, senior vice president of operations at Mini Mall Storage Properties. One of the many things that makes her story so heartfelt is its realness. No matter the hurdles that life has thrown at her, her grit has helped her get back up and keep going, both in her personal and professional life.
It had become a family tradition for everyone to go to school at Emmanuel. “Honestly, I went there because I was scared to go anywhere else,” says Downer. “Since my brother and some of my church friends were already going there, I knew I would have people to look after me.”
While in school, she worked at the local Rite Aid as the one-hour photo girl. She failed her Old Testament class and Intro to Psychology, but she excelled in journalism, winning several journalism and photography awards while she worked towards her degree in communications. “I did an internship at the local newspaper, which turned into my first real job after college.”
Downer had applied for a job as an assistant manager at a self-storage facility. Fortunately, she was offered a property manager position the day after her severance package ended. “Looking back, that was one of the many times that God showed me his providence,” she says.
At some point, after a series of personal issues, she had to scale back on work to take care of her family. “I needed to work, but I also needed to be more available for our kids,” says Downer. “After much fear and resistance, I started my own consulting firm, helping new owners and operators get started in the industry.” This is when providence, once again, intervened to provide her with exactly what she needed. “Along the way, I was introduced to John Traver, the owner and CEO of XPS. He hired me as a consultant to help launch a remote management initiative; and a few months later, I joined XPS.”
When asked to offer advice for women getting started in self-storage, she mentions the importance of being authentic. “For so long, I was insecure and intimidated by others, so I tried to stay in the background, or I would become a chameleon and adapt to whoever the audience was,” Downer says, adding that the problem with this approach is that it won’t help you feel comfortable in any environment. “It wasn’t until I married my now husband in 2021 that I truly committed to be myself, and it’s been life-altering for me. Don’t be afraid to be who you are. You will fit somewhere, and that’s the place you want to be.”
She also shares that it’s impossible to be perfect; oftentimes, doing your best is more than enough. “I’m a bit of a perfectionist and overachiever. I always want to be the best employee, wife, and mom I can be.”
That can be a tall order under any circumstances, but Downer’s life has had its share of complexities, making her attempts to be perfect even more challenging. “My husband already had five kids from a previous relationship when we got married, so I became a mom of seven overnight; three of them are on the autism spectrum,” she says. “I’ve learned that my best isn’t always needed or necessary. Sometimes, just being OK is perfectly fine.”
When not working, Downer loves spending time with her family. “I’m usually hanging out with them or washing the mounds of clothes that come along with seven kids,” she says with a laugh. “I also enjoy refinishing furniture or doing something artistic.”
At the end of the day, she just loves spending time with her family. “My favorite place in the world is home,” she says. “My husband and I enjoy the weekends on our back deck, listening to music or watching a game. He’s an amazing cook, so he’s generally grilling something delicious for all of us to enjoy,” she says, noting that those are pretty much the most luxurious things in life.